How To Get Your Wife To Cuckold You
How to Get Your Wife to Cuckold You
Most husbands start out trying to get their wives to cuckold them by putting the emphasis on “fucking other men.” This is a critical mistake. Just because this idea turns you on, doesn’t mean it is going to turn your wife on. Women think differently than men, especially married women—and the key word here is married. Women learn very early as little girls that being a good wife means being faithful to our husbands. We also have some preconceived ideas about marriage that makes the idea of cuckolding seem anti-marriage. Women are taught to nurture the relationship, not destroy it by fucking other men. Just because the husband says he wants it, it still does not make it right in our minds.
Men have to understand that in order for a wife to become a Cuckoldress. It is a process in her mind and during that process many hurdles have to be overcome mentally. The first hurdle for most women is “if I fuck someone else, what will happen to my marriage?” So take the focus off of “fucking other men” and put it on “enhancing the marriage.” Remember, women think in terms of relationships and men think in terms of sex. Men are so stupid in how they approach their wives. You’re going to have to talk about re-defining the marriage and how it’s going to work as a cuckold marriage. Believe me, your marriage will change, wannabe cuckold, once your wife gets more than that pathetic little 4 inches you have to offer her. And remind her, no one is falling in love here. Think of the cuckold lifestyle as nothing more than recreational sex with other men, not you!.
I suggest doing some of the cuckold exercises I will provide here in the next blog. Let her know you’re serious and this is not some perverted whim that you’re going through and will change your mind in two weeks. You must start communicating and a cuckold relationship takes more work than a normal one. If you are not willing to work at it then give it up!!!! Most of the cuckold wannabes really do not want to work at it. If she cuckolds you, there will be plenty of work to do, cuckold! So get used to it. You will not be giving her the cock she needs anymore, so you will have give her other things in the marriage, cuckboy.
The next hurdle is to make her feel sexy. After a few k**s and 10 or more years of marriage most women do not feel very sexy. Take her shopping; buy her some sexy clothes and lingerie. If you do not have a dildo, purchase one on Amazon, eBay or the Adult Toy Stores and not one that is 12 inches. If the only cock that she has had is your little 4 inch dick then I suggest something around 8 inches. A word of caution—do not shove the dildo all the way into her pussy the first time you use it!!!! Your wife needs to be stretched properly and prepared for a bigger lover slowly, and I repeat, “Slowly”. She needs to feel sexy again. She needs to feel desired and wanted by other men.
Have her wear the clothes and fantasize about other men while using the dildo. Get used to spending money on her, when she takes a lover you will spend plenty—on hotel rooms, clothes, etc.
Show her some videos here on xhamster; let her see how other sluts enjoy bigger cocks. If your wife has been conservative all her life, she will need to learn how to be the proper Cuckoldress Slut. Get a digital camera or a smartphone and start taking pictures of her all dressed up. Take her out to bars; take her dancing; get her used to going out and maybe some day she will go out and find some cock on her own. Encourage her to go out on her own or with some girlfriends and come back and fantasize with you that she got picked up by another man. Encourage her to flirt with other men.
Take the fantasy a step further. Ask her if you can post some photo’s of her right here on xhamster. Word the profile properly start out by saying something like “New to the lifestyle, married but looking”. See if you get any responses from other men. Fantasize about those men fucking her and you serving them.
My last bit of advice is to BE PATIENT. Even though she says she won’t do it, it doesn’t mean she is not thinking about it. Women are devious and it takes a while for us to tell our husbands what we really are thinking. If you engage her in the activities that I have suggested, then she is thinking about it.
by Cuckoldress Roxanne